[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.merstr.cz\/ultimatum-ve-vztahu-dobry-nebo-spatny-krok\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.merstr.cz\/ultimatum-ve-vztahu-dobry-nebo-spatny-krok\/","headline":"Ultim\u00e1tum ve vztahu \u2013 dobr\u00fd nebo \u0161patn\u00fd krok?","name":"Ultim\u00e1tum ve vztahu \u2013 dobr\u00fd nebo \u0161patn\u00fd krok?","description":"Mezilidsk\u00e9 vztahy a obzvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b ty partnersk\u00e9, b\u00fdvaj\u00ed pln\u00e9 o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. Ur\u010dit\u00e1<span class=\"more-button\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.merstr.cz\/ultimatum-ve-vztahu-dobry-nebo-spatny-krok\/\" class=\"more-link\">P\u0159e\u010d\u00edst \u010dl\u00e1nek<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Ultim\u00e1tum ve vztahu \u2013 dobr\u00fd nebo \u0161patn\u00fd krok?<\/span><\/a><\/span>","datePublished":"2020-01-21","dateModified":"2023-04-29","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.merstr.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.merstr.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b682f75cb96d085fca5fbc8ca3f08e323444e236f6e6028585b73de81c46f711?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b682f75cb96d085fca5fbc8ca3f08e323444e236f6e6028585b73de81c46f711?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"merstr.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.merstr.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a367967_w4397_t1580322427.png","url":"https:\/\/www.merstr.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a367967_w4397_t1580322427.png","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.merstr.cz\/ultimatum-ve-vztahu-dobry-nebo-spatny-krok\/","about":["Vztahy"],"wordCount":613,"articleBody":"Mezilidsk\u00e9 vztahy a obzvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b ty partnersk\u00e9, b\u00fdvaj\u00ed pln\u00e9 o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. Ur\u010dit\u00e1 o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, pl\u00e1ny a sny m\u00e1me na za\u010d\u00e1tku vztahu, v\u00a0jeho pr\u016fb\u011bhu i na konci. Tyto postoje k\u00a0druh\u00e9mu \u010dlov\u011bku i k\u00a0na\u0161\u00ed spole\u010dn\u00e9 budoucnosti se p\u0159irozen\u011b m\u011bn\u00ed spolu s\u00a0n\u00e1mi. M\u011bn\u00ed se na\u0161e spole\u010dn\u00e9 vize, ale i ty, kter\u00e9 m\u00e1me ka\u017ed\u00fd zvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165. Nejsme stejn\u00ed, jeden jako druh\u00fd. A proto nen\u00ed a\u017e takov\u00fdm p\u0159ekvapen\u00edm fakt, \u017ee se mnohdy li\u0161\u00edme v\u00a0tom, co jeden od druh\u00e9ho o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1me. Nebo co o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1me od n\u00e1s dvou jako od p\u00e1ru.Nen\u00ed od v\u011bci si pravideln\u011b vymezovat, kam spolu vlastn\u011b sm\u011b\u0159ujeme a jestli jsme oba \u0161\u0165astn\u00ed a spokojen\u00ed na cest\u011b, kterou se ub\u00edr\u00e1me. Ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1 svobodnou v\u016fli a t\u00edm p\u00e1dem i pr\u00e1vo nesouhlasit s\u00a0postojem sv\u00e9ho partnera.Co si ale m\u00e1me po\u010d\u00edt v\u00a0situaci, kdy spolu n\u011bjak z\u00e1sadn\u011b nesouhlas\u00edme? Jako p\u0159\u00edklad vezm\u011bme moment, kdy se \u017eena chce vd\u00e1t, ale mu\u017e s\u0148atek nepova\u017euje za d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fd krok. Pro \u017eenu je podstatn\u00e9 naplnit ur\u010dit\u00e9 aspekty sv\u00e9ho vztahu, shledala, \u017ee jsou p\u00e1r ji\u017e p\u0159ijatelnou \u0159\u00e1dku let a \u017ee by spolu mohli zalo\u017eit v\u00a0budoucnu rodinu \u2013 je pro ni d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9, aby byli s\u00a0partnerem man\u017eel\u00e9, aby m\u011bli spole\u010dn\u00e9 jm\u00e9no, majetek, aby byli rodina. Pro mu\u017ee v\u0161ak toto nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt v\u017edy sen. N\u011bkdy mu sta\u010d\u00ed, m\u00edt \u017eenu jako partnerku a nem\u00e1 pot\u0159ebu po\u0159\u00e1dat velkolep\u00e9 ob\u0159ady, hostiny, p\u0159edv\u00e1d\u011bt sv\u016fj vztah p\u0159ed rodinou a p\u0159\u00e1teli. N\u011bkdy mu m\u016f\u017ee vadit pozornost, kterou na sebe t\u00edmto zam\u011b\u0159\u00ed, m\u016f\u017ee mu vadit u\u017e jen, to \u017ee je k\u00a0tomuto kroku tla\u010den. A tehdy nast\u00e1v\u00e1 situace, kdy m\u016f\u017ee ze strany \u017eeny vzniknout pot\u0159eba d\u00e1t sv\u00e9mu partnerovi ultim\u00e1tum. Bu\u010f se s\u00a0n\u00ed o\u017een\u00ed, nebo nem\u00e1 smysl v\u00a0tomto vztahu nad\u00e1le pokra\u010dovat.Je ultim\u00e1tum v\u00a0podobn\u00e9 situaci to nejmoud\u0159ej\u0161\u00ed \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed?Pro\u010d ano:\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 N\u011bkdy je pot\u0159eba se vymezit. Vymezit sv\u00e9 j\u00e1 a sv\u00e9 pot\u0159eby. Kompromisy ve vztahu jsou skv\u011bl\u00e9, ale v\u0161e m\u00e1 sv\u00e9 meze. Pokud m\u00e1 \u010dlov\u011bk pocit, \u017ee je dlouhodob\u011b ne\u0161\u0165astn\u00fd a pot\u0159ebuje ve sv\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b zm\u011bnu, je spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 o ni po\u017e\u00e1dat.\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 N\u011bkter\u00e9 situace se zkr\u00e1tka samy nevy\u0159e\u0161\u00ed. A tak \u010dek\u00e1me, \u010dek\u00e1me, a pak u\u017e n\u00e1m nezbude nic jin\u00e9ho ne\u017e d\u00e1t partnerovi na v\u00fdb\u011br.Pro\u010d ne:\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Nev\u00fdhodou je, \u017ee t\u00edm partnera stav\u00edme do velmi nev\u00fdhodn\u00e9 situace. Pokud m\u00e1m toti\u017e na vybranou ze dvou mo\u017enost\u00ed, z\u00a0nich\u017e ani o jednu nestoj\u00edm, je velmi obt\u00ed\u017en\u00e9 se rozhodnout.\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Je to trochu nef\u00e9r vzhledem k\u00a0faktu, \u017ee ve vztahu jsou v\u017edy dva lid\u00e9. Je tedy sobeck\u00e9 cht\u00edt po jednom, aby rozhodl budoucnost cel\u00e9ho vztahu.\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Stav\u00edme t\u00edm partnera ihned do opozice a d\u00e1v\u00e1me mu najevo, \u017ee n\u00e1s nezaj\u00edm\u00e1, co chce. Zaj\u00edm\u00e1 n\u00e1s pouze to, co chceme my, chceme to hned, a kdy\u017e to nebudeme m\u00edt, u\u017e s\u00a0n\u00edm nechceme m\u00edt nic spole\u010dn\u00e9ho. Takto se chov\u00e1 d\u00edt\u011b, a ne zral\u00e1 dosp\u011bl\u00e1 osoba. Bu\u010fme v\u00edce svoln\u00ed kompromisu a citliv\u00ed k\u00a0pot\u0159eb\u00e1m na\u0161eho partnera.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4\/5 - (8 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Ultim\u00e1tum ve vztahu \u2013 dobr\u00fd nebo \u0161patn\u00fd krok?","item":"https:\/\/www.merstr.cz\/ultimatum-ve-vztahu-dobry-nebo-spatny-krok\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]